Hi Everyone!
I can still remember picking Tyra out at the Humane Society. We had lost our first dog, Shadow, about a year before, and our other dog, Woof, didn’t like being alone, so we decided to see if we could find a second dog so she would have some company. Woof didn’t like the shelter much; it was too noisy and loud, so we put her back in the car and returned. (It was February 14, so the weather was not an issue.) The first run we encountered had two dogs in it, and two placards with their names on them attached to the door. One of them said “My name is Tyra, and I know how to sit!” Mark looked at both dogs, said sit, and one of them, a pretty dog with black hair and white, brown and tan markings did. (She rarely sat on command after that, but the one time in her life it counted, she certainly did!). We asked the shelter volunteer if we could adopt her, and the attendant said, “I think that’s an excellent idea!”
Tyra’s Second Day at Home
No matter how hard a kennel or shelter tries, dogs that reside there acquire the very potent “Eau de Dog” scent, so as soon as we got her home, we popped Tyra into a bathtub, and washed her. From then until the day that she died, that dog never put a foot onto the tile portion of a bathroom in any house we resided in. Apparently, we had inadvertently scarred her for life!
Every dog has a unique personality, and Tyra’s outstanding characteristic was her eagerness to please – not in the goofy, sloppy, wonderful way a lab does, as if his whole world revolves around that instant in time his owner asks him to do something , but in her own quiet, determined way. She had been left at the kennel by her first family because they had a baby and no longer had time for her. I always had the impression that she was determined that would never happen again. Of course, she couldn’t know at first that our family has one firm rule about adoptions of any animal, canine or human – once you’re a member of the pack, you’re always a member of the pack – but I suspect she caught on after a while.
She adapted quickly and well, as this picture from that first summer show.
Tyra in the back yard in Montgomery
Even better, Woof regained the ability to sleep in the sun and be happy even when Mark and I weren’t in the yard.
Woof in the Back Yard When Tyra was There
We didn’t know it at the time we adopted Tyra, but she was not going to be the only new member of our family that year. In mid-November, at long last, the people at the Alabama DHR told us that they had a child they would like us to consider taking in as a foster child, with hopes that we could adopt her eventually. By December 1, 2004, Kayla had come to live with us. Here is a picture of all five us right about then:
Family Photo
We all had new experiences to share that winter, including the dogs experiencing the joys of having a child on the floor with her Dad and a bunch of Lincoln Log train tracks.
Train Tracks, Family and Paws
Kayla and Tyra bonded quickly. It really helped Kayla understand what was going on with her when we could explain to her what happened to Tyra – and it helped Kayla trust us to keep loving her when she saw how we loved Tyra.
Kayla and Big Dog
Sweet Kisses
There are so many things that made her unique – like the fact that even when she was old and blind, she could hear you peel a banana from 50 yards away and arrive instantly to demand her fair share, or that the only time I ever knew her to intentionally go after another person or dog was when she thought one of us was threatened. She did it twice – once when she thought another dog was attacking Woof, and once when Kayla was four and answered the door when the doorbell rang, then screamed because she didn’t recognize the person there. That time, Tyra had four teenage boys treed on the trunk of their car in the few seconds it took Mark to fly from the back yard to the front door himself. I felt sorry for the boys – all they wanted were directions. Both times, there was not a mark on either the dog or the boys when all was said and done but she had made a believer out of all of them!
Her story here came to an end on March 22. We hadn’t really thought we were that close to the end, even though she was 14, but that weekend she simply couldn’t seem to lift herself up off our wooden floor or go down the stairs at all, so I dropped her off at the vet’s that day, afraid of what I would hear. When the vet called me back, I think I knew what she was going to tell me before she said it. Tyra’s back had many osteophytes on the spine that had grown to the point that they were impinging on her nerves. Dr. Mitchell explained that Tyra would be in constant, worsening pain from then on, and we made the only decision we could.
I am comforted by the thought that Tyra knew without a doubt that we loved her; Mark, Kayla and I all made it to the vet about 1/2 hour in advance so we could be with her, petting her and telling her how much we loved her, and then it was time.
I also expect that it was only seconds after leaving here that Tyra was with Shadow and Woof – trying to help Woof explain to Shadow exactly what Mandy looks like.
Sleep well, sweet Tyra Belle.
Nancy
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